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by: Deborah Roberts
ABCNEWS Correspondent, 20/20
I have always welcomed new experiences. It is one of the true joys of my job as
a journalist. Over the years I have taken some amazing journeys: to Kuwait, to
cover the Persian Gulf War. To Barcelona, reporting on the Summer Olympics. To
rural Ohio, investigating shocking claims of sexual abuse within the Amish community.
Each assignment has resonated with me in its on way.
But it was my recent sojourn to Ethiopia which has had the most profound impact
on me as an individual. Who knew that this whirlwind assignment would leave
such a lasting memory?
It began unexpectedly as so many of my assignments do, with a late night phone
call. On the other end was Meredith White, a senior producer at 20/20 with a
frantic, direct question. What was I doing tomorrow, and did I have any interest
in catching the next plane to Africa for a promising but uncertain story. What?
Africa, tomorrow?
It turns out that someone on our staff had stumbled upon an intriguing story.
An American woman of Ethiopian heritage who had overcome an unimaginable disability
was travelling back to Africa in search of the mother who'd abandoned her as
a child. The woman, described as quite beautiful and accomplished, had lost
both legs in a terrible accident as an infant and had been raised by missionaries
in Ethiopia. Now, three decades later, she was a mother of three in Seattle.
It had all the markings of a heartwarming, dramatic story.
The next day, I was bound for Addis Ababa to catch up with Lydia Assefa, who
was in the throes of a nerve-wracking moment of discovery. What I couldn't know
is that this trip would also come to represent a defining moment for myself.
I had visited Africa just a year before while covering a story on post-war atrocities
in Rwanda. It was a heartbreaking assignment. This one, thankfully, was filled
with joy and hope.
From the moment I stepped off the plane, I had a visceral feeling that this
was no ordinary assignment. As I looked into the dark, warm faces of the handlers
who were to pick me up, it was as though I had stepped back into my old close-knit
neighborhood in tiny Perry, Georgia. Though I was halfway around the world,
and listening to an undiscernible language, something felt eerily familiar.
The next morning, my crew and I met Lydia and her husband Troy and boarded
a small plane with them to embark on an uncertain journey to an unknown village,
with the hopes of finding her mother. The beauty and wonder of this story were
already unfolding. The plane was being piloted by Solomon Gizaw, an old friend
Lydia met in America. He'd recently returned with his family to settle in his
beloved Ethiopia. A handsome man with a bright warm smile, Solomon was so touched
by his friend's desperate longing to connect with her roots that he dropped
everything to transport her to the remote village where she believed her mother
still lived. Solomon's unselfish gesture was remarkable.
As we touched down on the remote, grassy landing strip that would lead to
the village, the smell of fresh earth hung in the air. I set about my duties
as a reporter, interviewing Lydia and gathering information on our whereabouts.
But even as I worked, I was struck by the engaging, beautiful faces of the curious
children who began to swarm around us, fixated on our every move. Usually I
have no trouble distancing myself from my surroundings as I go about my job,
but this time something was different. The beautiful smiling faces I stared
into looked so familiar. Again, I was momentarily transported to my rural childhood
home.
Our assignment quickly took on dramatic twists. First, we had to take another
arduous journey to a nearby guest house where Solomon had arranged for us to
interview Lydia's mother. It would be difficult. The dirt roads were designed
for foot traffic only. The ride in a rickety pickup truck offered to us by a
villager was bumpy and long.
When we arrived, we were greeted by a smallish woman with a broad smile who
showed us into a spare cement house. It was simple and clean. She pointed to
an outhouse indicating the facility for us to relieve ourselves. I was touched
by the charm of the rustic surroundings and the warmth of the people.
For hours we waited, until finally, just after darkness had settled, Lydia's
mother arrived. It took hours for Solomon and our camera to make it to her tiny
village just a few miles down the bumpy, jagged road. As the tiny woman, draped
in a headwrap, made her way into the candlelit house, heavy emotion filled the
room. She buried her long lost daughter in breathless hugs and kisses. Some
of us wept at this amazing scene of incredible love.
After conducting an interview with mother and daughter, we realized that we
would camp overnight with all who filled the room. It was too dangerous to attempt
a flight in the darkened village. In other settings I might have felt some anxiety
over the situation. Being stranded in the middle of nowhere isn't exactly desirable.
But I was completely at ease, somehow comforted in this home surrounded by the
loving, nurturing spirits of my newfound African friends. As we all shared in
the spicy lamb stew and the native bread, again I was flooded with vivid memories
of my childhood home thousands of miles away, the scene in this small, crowded
house in Africa reminiscent of my loving home jammed with relatives sitting
around the kitchen table.
For years I had viewed Africa, like so many American Blacks, as a distant place.
The people and their experiences, I felt, were in no way connected to me. But
on this night, something changed. Spiritually, I recognized that we were all
one. The Ethiopians sitting next to me, warmly gazing into my unfamiliar face,
were as much a part of me as my own family. We shared more than skin color.
We shared a common heritage. I knew that this was no longer just another assignment.
I was truly at home.
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